The Art of Dick

Cock, Penis or whatever you want to call it. Boy is it a sensitive subject, er, object.

Men's whole world is wrapped up in their cocks and they won't say it out loud or proclaim it or discuss it, but they will just assume that you feel the same way about their cock as they do. And maybe you do. Or maybe you don't. Maybe you have a vagina and to you cock is just what it is, a love-making tool that helps with procreation. Tool? How dare you call the cock a tool?

Men are really sensitive about their penises, and you will be surprised how many men I have met who come into my office because they think their penis is "BROKEN." It's obviously not physically broken like a broken leg or lost finger, but it NO LONGER WORKS. This my lady friends, is one of the biggest fears and losses in a man's life. The LOSS OF HIS DICK. Permanent damage. Castration. Etc. The irony is this, that 99.9% of the time (with the exception of extreme cases like Lorena Bobbitt or medical procedure penis removal for prostate cancer) this castration, permanent damage and loss of penis is 100% mental. Men put so much stock into their cocks, that they also put themselves in a high risk category for mental castration. Not all men do this of course. Some men see their penis in a more realistic light. SOME MEN, SOME TIME. But at one time or another, in every man's life I guarantee you the COCK is KING.
What men don't realize is that this is a high and mighty position, which is often difficult and downright tedious to maintain. And what comes up must come down. No pun intended. But, when you put something up so high up on a pedestal, and wrap your entire life and identity into you, you only set yourself up for disappointment and failure.

Yes, women love DICK, too. I am not saying that women don't at all, I mean come on we have developed silicone, plastic and latex imitations of the damn things. Yes, women like cock. BUT, Men have to realize how much your lust and desire for women and all things erotic is tied into a REFLECTION of your penis, that is how much your EGO is tied in with your COCK.

All this really means is that women, although may love and service your cock happily, and gratefully at times and then not so much at other times, but don't put quite as much importance on your Johnson quite as much nor in the same way you men do. To us, your cock is not a reflection of your manhood. Not in our eyes. We have Vagina's. We do not have an exterior object, er I mean member, that protrudes, feels pleasure and then excretes juice. We don't feel quite the same as you when it comes to lust, desire and passion, and the only reason we worship your penis is because YOU do. So, just relax. Affection and love can be given and received in so many ways.

Oh, and if a woman rejects your penis, by suggesting it's too small, big, fat or skinny, don't take this so personally. Recognize that there is more to sex, love, and passion than good old fashioned fucking.

All I am saying is that you are not a reflection of your cock, and your cock is not a reflection of you. So give your penis a break. If it feels broken, take it down off the pedestal for a while and see how your cock reacts to this. Don't put so much pressure on your penis. Seriously. The art to a happy Dick is to give Dick a break.

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