Have a Sex Heart -to- Heart

Couples tell me all the time, "Oh we have no problems with communication," but when I ask them about the conversations around intimacy, sex, connectivity, fantasies, etc so on and so forth, people often start to retreat, get embarrassed, look at each other with an awkward smile.  Well, news flash ladies and gentlemen plain old talking is not always saying something, you can say 100 words and not say anything at all, right? Unless the words are cohesive, understandable, and most importantly heart felt you might be talking but can anyone really hear you? 

Here is my article about having the sex heart-to-heart, it's about getting down to the nitty gritty, being totally honest about what turns you on, your fantasies, bearing your soul to your partner so that you can begin having the best sex of your life. 

Now, it's not something that can happen in one day, or even a week. This article is geared towards long term couples, and most of the time to make lasting changes it's an ongoing process. Start slow, with one foot in front of the other and watch your sex vocabulary grow, your connection with your partner grow, the burden of your secrets start to fade. Trust me on this one.

You can read the article here, and if you want more info, education, counseling, coaching or therapy don't hesitate to contact me!

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Read the article HERE.