I am a huge proponent for sex, in case you couldn't tell, but I strongly believe in making deliberate choices as well. Sometimes in the heat of passion, we can be overcome by desire and lust and guess what can also happen... our caution can go out the window. Now, I am not suggesting we be cautious or reserved or tentative when we are sexual, quite the contrary, I am just suggesting that you make some choices for yourself in honor of your body and mind.
I've come up with a list of rules for having sex, if you are not in a relationship. Yes, I am suggesting you stop and think about it. Sex is not something that you should just be 'doing,' sex should be a conscious choice that makes you feel good in the moment and in the moments to come. Does that make sense?!
Anyway, here is the article I wrote: 3 Rules For Sex If You Are Single. Check it out!!