Men often get a bad rap for being the reason women's sexual satisfaction wanes.
Classic gender roles and traditions may be cause for women's inability to get what they want in bed.
6) Women often take it personally when your man wants to try something new. Recognize sex and relationships take work. Spice things up together. Recognize that you probably want something new to try too.
5) Women don't give men guidance, and assume great lovers are born. Great lovers are made not born, and men aren't mind readers. If you don't tell him what he needs to do to get you to orgasm, he'll never know. Men very much want to please women. So speak up and tell him. Great lovers weren't built in a day.
4)Don't assume that men are always up for Sex. Teenage boys might be, sure. Women don't take this personally. Men have off times too.
3) This is a big one, and too many women assume this, based on our societal teachings that sex is casual for men. Read: Not always true. For some men sex is a very important act. Don't minimize it. Take heart that men are just as Romantic as Women are Sexual.
2) Worrying about how you look during the sex act. READ: Men don't care if you have belly rolls, if you are energetic, passionate, and enjoying yourself is enough for him.
Men are more concerned about your excitement and interest towards him, your joie de vivre, not the shape of your waist and hips.
1) Not initiating Sex. This view is outdated. Roles have changed. Ladies take heed!
Read: Men love when a woman knows what she wants and knows how to get it. Go on and get it girl!
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