When It Comes to Caretaking and Helplessness, Enabling Is Disabling

Autonomy and personal responsibility are key to relationship satisfaction, but all too often, partners take on the role of either caretaker—martyr, even—or helpless victim.

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Maybe You're Single Because You Wanna Be!!

This article is about embracing singlehood. This article is about choosing to be single in a conscious way. This article is about recognizing all the choices you made for a reason, to get to where you are today. 6 Steps to a Conscious Singlehood.

Balancing Your Relationship

Is your relationship always about cat and mouse? Stop the chase means, loving your partner for who they are, and loving yourself for who you are first.
Read how to here.

How to Become Orgasmic!

My video on How to Become Orgasmic is now available to be viewed both on the Your Tango Sex Homepage as well as here.

Ethical Polyamory TONIGHT 7PM!!

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Aging and Orgasms for Men

On this week's question for Get Lusty, I address aging, sexuality and male orgasm. Read more....

The Sex Talk Series....

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The Sex Talk Series

Here's a preview of our Sex Talk series called "The Sex Talk", videos geared towards sex and relationships... This video is about dating....

Mental Health in the wake of Newtown, CT

I was recently quoted in this article....

Therapists Seek Meaningful Solutions in Aftermath of Newtown...

Threesomes, Resolutions, Money and Kids in 2013!

New year, new moves! But the best way to make the most of the New Year is to change right when the inspiration hits. I think you are more likely to stick to your goals at that moment. And remember, if you falter, it's okay to start over. Click to read the January 2013 Newsletter

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Call To Arms for Mental Health Care

This article is actually about parenting, and how we have set up this nuclear family system which puts a lot of pressure on two people to parent. We live in houses with a mom, a dad, two kids, and a dog. This is America. But, in many ways this secular American system, though it looks ideal it sets us up for failure too often. Nuclear families are lost and lonely, struggling to find support in the midst of economic crisis like unemployment, in times of hardship which lead to divorce and in times of illness. When we divide up into little ricky-tacky families we seclude ourselves from society. Behind closed doors we stay connected via the internet, the phone, the TV, but what we forget is that when the time comes we need human interaction to get through the harder times.

I think the mental health profession was created in many ways to support this lifestyle, so why do so many people see mental health work as the end to a means when things are not going well? I say, utilize it!  Read my article about parenting and mental health care here. 

The New Years Rock Bottom Article

Well it's 2013, and I know most of you have some new year's resolutions you'd like to get started on. I start a lot of my resolutions however, year round, when the epiphany hits. This article was written shortly before new years, but you know, it applies to every day of the year. If you want to make a change, why not start now.

Hitting rock bottom doesn't mean you have to wait until Monday, or New Years Day or what have you to start something new, when you are ready to make a change, do it then and there. Putting something off until the first day of a new month, week or year is just postponing the enivitable and is purported with fear. Do it today!!
Read the article of how I hit rock bottom and made a change here....