The Sex Talk - Fighting Bed Death in 9 Easy Steps

Libido Killers on The Girl Spot

I was back on The Girl Spot on Bite Size TV this week talking Libido Killers.

The Sex Talk on Curve Magazine

NYC Based Curve Magazine

has picked up our sex education web series -
The Sex Talk,

and will be streaming our episodes therein.

Yay! Thanks Curve.

Surrogate Partner Therapy

Learn more about this life changing process in my latest blog post.

Read it here..

Taming Your Crushes, This Week on The Sex Talk

Falling too fast too soon? Or maybe someone is making you feel overwhelmed and suffocated with their lack of boundaries towards you. We call them crushes- unwanted and excessive tokens of love, and admiration that are one-sided. Can lead to stalking. Learn to have boundaries, whether you are the receiver or the giver. Know your limits.

Sex Positive NYC- COMING SOON!

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Talking Dirty on The Sex Talk

This week Jenoa and I break down Talking Dirty, learning how to do it, going slow ad practicing.

The 5 Love Languages on The Sex Talk

This week on The Sex Talk, Jenoa and I discuss the Five Love Languages, by Dr. Gary Chapman

Keeping the Passion Alive

This week on The Girl Spot- I am discussing how to Keep the Passion Alive. Watch the episode here....

Men and Sex

Men have a voice too when it comes to sex! Red my story here...

Stay Sex Positive and Kinky

The best way to have a healthy life is to remain open minded about sex, and to embrace the kinky side of life. That's our motto on the Sex Talk. New episodes are on their way!

Cheating and Infidelity

Cheating and infidelity broken down- What are the agreements in your relationship?

Discussing Open Relationships on The Girl Spot

Do Age Differences in Relationships Matter?

Age differences get a bad rap, but we say, don't be an ageist, have an open mind!

Support AIDS Research, Education- Join AIDS LifeCycle today!

You can ride or you can simply sponsor. Let's help get rid of AIDS!

Sober Sex, Sex After Sobriety

Breaking down not drinking, not drugging and how it affects your sex life. And we highly recommend fully present sober sex. Try it today!

What if You Labeled Yourself a Lesbian Then You Were Attracted to a Man?

The Sex Talk is Moushumi Ghose, a sex therapist in Los Angeles and Jenoa Harlow a lesbian identified actress dishing about sex education, love, relationships advice and dating tips. In this episode they address the choice to label oneself whether it be gay, lesbian, bisexual, heterosexual, pansexual, queer or other, and the ramifications when the label you used, or sexual identity you once had no longer fits. The example used is when a lesbian realizes she likes men. 
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Love Now, Pay Later...

Sometimes to get love, you gotta throw caution to the wind. Read my story here.....

WHAT? You didn't know KINK was better?

Find out why we think so in this episode!

The "Sex" Episode on Sin & Sanaz's Show

If you missed the show last night watch it here. That's fetish model Mosh on the left. We talk about BDSM, Fetish, Swingers and more.

Tonight I'll be LIVE with Sin Quirin From MINISTRY

On The Sin/Sanaz Show the "SEX" Episode- The "SEX" episode.
Sex therapy, sexuality, monogamy, infidelity, non-monogamy, open-relationships, polyamory, alternative lifestyles, kink... 
Tune in Oct. 8th from 8-9pm PST at www.tradiov.com 
Call us at 855-878-4652

Sex Toy of the Day!

Interested in trying out some light Bondage and Discipline? Try this twin lash whip from JT's StockRoom! But remember to brush up on your safe words and BDSM rule book before engaging with your partner. Key word is always CONSENT! Have fun!!

SEX Toy of the Day

October is National Kink Month at JT's Stockroom. So everyday I am going to post (at least I am going to try to post) a toy or adult video of the day!
Today's toy is a non-battery operated dildo, the Aneros EVI which contours to the shape of your body and inspires you to do some kegels. Try it!! Wontcha??

Six Ways Men Should Have a Voice!

Men are 50% of what is going on, they are not always the perpetrator and often they are also victims of a larger society that places a lot of emphasis on sex but doesn 't invite anyone to take an active role in their own sexuality.

Read my article here...

Getting Naked Can Help You!!

Watch this video to learn how. New videos every week!

Are You Sabotaging Your Sex Life?

There are many ways women may sabotage their sex lives in marriage, here are just a few I came up with in this article I was quoted on for My Chic life.

Sexuality Parties and Conference

Lot's of healthy positive sexuality events going on this week in and around Los Angeles.

Thursday night, 8PM -11PM is Glory Hole, The Annual Party at The Pleasure Chest

in West Hollywood. A festival of sorts. They block off the street/parking lot, and there are performances and prizes. Fun times.

Fri- Sunday is Catalyst Con in Woodland Hills, CA.  From the Catalyst Con website: "This conference as a “melting pot of sexuality” that will unite sex educators, sexologists, sex workers, writers, activists, those in the adult industry and anyone with a passion for creating change. “Knowledge is power, and sharing that knowledge is the first spark in igniting change.” This is the fundamental principle behind CatalystCon."

You'll know where to find me!!

The Sex Talk - When to Bring Up an STD

When do you bring up an STD when dating? Some say put it on your dating profile? What do you think?

Sexy Saturday with Mou at Liberace's Penthouse

During the summer months, I host intimate discussion groups on the rooftop, poolside at the late Liberace's Penthouse in West Hollywood CA, called Sexy Saturdays with Mou.
This past weekend, we had the honor of being graced with the presence of Damon Holzum, sex educator. Though the demo was not fully hands on, it was quite close and very informative, educational and demonstrative. This man knows his stuff. Topics covered included anal sex, anal fisting, double penetration, water sports and sounding. Sound interesting enough? It was.

Here are some photos from the event. Thank you to everyone who came out, to the men who were least expected but elected to volunteer in the demos, to our anal toy giveaway supplier and to Astra Pacific for donating the space. Stay tuned for more Sexy Saturdays with Mou......

The Sex Talk- How to Avoid Codependent Relationships

Resentful friends? Feeling guilty about pursuing your dreams? Feeling helpless, like you can't solve your problems without your partner? Then that might be a sign!!

The Sex Talk is Moushumi Ghose, a sex therapist in Los Angeles and Jenoa Harlow a lesbian identified actress dishing about sex, love, relationships and dating. In this episode they address a common phenomenon in relationships: codependence which comes out of two people trying to solve or fix each other's problems, and becoming too enmeshed. Other signs include taking on your partners emotions, not validating your partners emotions or experience and neglecting about your friends, and neglecting about your hobbies. Other topics addressed are manipulation and coercion/control in codependent relationships.


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Sexy Saturday at The Liberace Penthouse 9/21

That's right, the next sexy Saturday workshop is a little over a week away. Saturday 9/21 at 4pm at the Liberace Penthouse in West Hollywood, CA. Come join us for an afternoon of sun and butt talk. Former guest on The Sex Talk, Sex Educator Damon Holzum joins us to discuss Anal and Hardcore Sex!! Don't miss out!!

You can RSVP on the Facebook invite if that works for you. We'd love to see you there!

The Sex Talk - Sex During Menstruation

Sex During Menstruation... I know, it makes people squeamish, but a lot of men and women like it, not to mention it's a natural part of life.

The Sex Talk - My Partner Has A Secret Fetish

Moushumi Ghose is a sex therapist based in Los Angeles, Jenoa Harlow is a lesbian identified actress. In this episode of the sex talk they discuss what to do if your partner reveals a secret fetish or fantasy that is not arousing to you. Negotiate, don't shame, try it and use it as a platform to share your secret fetish or fantasy. 

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The 'Two-Fuck' Rule on The Sex Talk

The bonding hormone, the "I wanna nest with you" hormone is at play when you have sex, have orgasms, and if you're not emotionally available, if you're just sport fucking, OR if you are hooking up with someone who is emotionally unavailable to you, consider enacting the 'two-fuck' rule.

What Couples Can Learn from the Poly and Kink communities

Kink and poly lifestyles may not be your cup of tea but there is still a lot couples can learn from these communities. Read my article here...

Sexting! on The Sex Talk

Sexting - The Sex Talk

Yay! Sexting! It's all the rage! Check out this weeks episode on The Sex Talk!

Secrecy Will Cripple You

How can you tell if you are being inflicted by shame? If you hide any part of yourself from anyone, if you choose to omit parts of your story, if you avoid talking to certain people about certain things, if you lie, cheat, steal, have secrets, then you are likely operating from shame. It’s a terribly repressive place. Secrecy will cripple you. Read my blog on Temples and Brothels, here...

The Sex Talk -When The Passion Dies

What to do when the passion dies in your relationship? We dish out the relationship advice. It's all about LOVE. Follow Jenoa on Twitter, because she rules. You can also follow me on Twitter, I post lots of sex, love and relationship articles and advice there. Friend us on Facebook, or Tumblr and if you haven't already, why not subscribe for FREE at www.TheSexTalkSeries.com, 

Non Monogamy Issues

Read what several therapists, myself included have to say about non-monogamy in this article from GoodTherapy.org.

The Sex Talk - Moving In Together

Avoid being a u-haul lesbian, avoid lesbian bed-death, this goes for EVERYONE not just lesbians or women, go slow, take your time, what is the rush to move in together?!

The Sex Talk - Developing Healthy Patterns Early On

Establishing healthy patterns for relationships early is key- they may be harder to change later on. Subscribe to The Sex Talk- we have new episodes on dating, relationships and sex every week!

Singlehood!

6 Steps to a conscious single hood. There is a myth perpetuated that ‪#‎single‬ people are not happy. This is not true. If you are single, there may be a possibility that you are not ready to share yourself with another person, right now. That is okay.

Talking to your kids about sex...

An older podcast featuring Amy Lang, Parent Educator,
She reminds us how to talk to our kids about sex, and that avoiding the talk may not the best idea.
A must listen for all parents!

Sex Saturday at The Liberace Penthouse are coming back!

Come to Sexy Saturday on Aug 24th. Check out the speaker schedule here.

When Your Two Exes Are Dating

Do you stay friends with your exes? Then what do you do if they date another ex, or a friend?
This is answered by me and Jenoa on The Sex Talk. Subscribe Free, or follow us on Tumblr we have new episodes every week!

I will be on The ID Channel, Saturday Night 10PM

Tomorrow night at 10PM, on The ID Channel, Check out Poisoned Passions, the story of Dawn Schiller and porn star John Holmes. I'll be on it as well giving my expert input!

Fall in Love, and Stay in Love

Here are 5 ways to ensure long term relationship satisfaction. Read the article here...

One-Sided Love Affairs

Maybe you're just not their cup of tea. And that is okay!
Here is why. The Sex Talk. Subscribe today for Free.

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Sexy Feminists Do Wear Dresses and Lipstick

...and they don't put down Kim Kardashian. Please don't waste your time!
Check out this episode.
Heather and Jennifer the Sexy Feminism co-authors join Jenoa and I on The Sex Talk!
 

Sexy Saturdays get mentioned in the Hollywood Reporter

My summer workshop series got a mention in this weeks Hollywood Reporter. Read the article here.

And don't forget to stop by the website to see the summer Sexy Saturday schedule here...

Please Welcome Amie Harwick, MFT Intern

Amie Harwick is a Marriage and Family Therapy Intern who recently joined the Los Angeles Sex Therapy family. She is now taking on new clients at the West Hollywood location.



Here is an article she wrote on BDSM for EliteDaily.

Also, please stop by her Facebook page and Twitter page and say Hello. 

Newsletter -Sexy Feminism and Porn

July's newsletter seemed to be filled to the brim with feminism and porn. Remember it is free to subscribe at www.LASexTherapist.com

Breaking Up

Me  and Jenoa Harlow are back with the Sex Talk. In this episode we discuss breaking up, and remind viewers that grief, loss and change are universal experiences. We discuss marriage, fear of abandonment and encourage people to keep in mind that breaking up can be done in a healthy way. Also discussed are ways to heal after a break up including avoiding stalking and obsessing on facebook, and avoiding social venues if there is a risk of running into them. As always we emphasize self care, honesty, and being genuine with yourself. 

4 Waves of Feminism on The Sex Talk!

This is an important episode for women! Wondering when we got the right to vote? To open our own checking accounts? Own property? Watch porn? It's all right here!

Featuring The Sexy Feminists! OF COURSE!!

The Daily Beast..

That same article, from my last post, my top 10 feminist porn list, made it to the daily beast.  Yay!

The Best Feminist Porn and Erotica

Feminism and porn seem to be the theme this month, so staying with the theme I have created a list, (no, it's not all inclusive) of the best of feminist porn and erotica...

And, yes, it is posted on The SexyFeminist website. I will be live at the Pleasure Chest, talking about sexy feminism with these ladies on July 10, 2013... so you can mark your calendar for this spectacular, FREE event!

4 Steps to Getting Over a Rejection

Rejection can impede growth and can happen to everyone, whether you are single or in a relationship. Read my article here...

Poisoned Passions: When Sex Games Go Wrong on ID

Here is a link to the trailer for Poisoned Passions on the ID, Investigation Discoveries channel

The show aired Saturday but will hopefully re-air.

Energize: The Lonn Friend Podcast

If you missed it Monday, you can catch the archived version of the fun and sexy and a little crazy radio show I appeared on the other night!

Special guests also included singer/songwriter Clair Reilly-Roe and actress Amy Lindsay.

Loving Porn... The Healthy Way

Hi! In this weeks episode Jenoa and I discuss PORN, adult entertainment, it's positives and negatives. Here's a hint, we love porn, we just use it to navigate our sex lives nor our relationships!!

TONIGHT! Listen Live

I will be LIVE on the Lonn Friend show. Here is the link to LISTEN LIVE!

Poisoned Passions

You can see me on the Poisoned Passions episode on the ID Channel (Investigation Discovery) tonight- Saturday night at 10PM, The Vicki Morgan Story. Poisoned Passions- Sex Games Gone Wrong.

Sexy Feminists Love Men Too!

Feminism is not only about women, it's about men too! In this episode, the sexy feminists are back with me and Jenoa on The Sex Talk! And they remind us that men are important to the movement. Equality makes everyone happier and thus sexier. Not to mention, masculinity is hot!! Check it out. And don't forget to subscribe to our channel TheSexTalkSeries.com

xoxo
Mou

More Polyamory!

I know, I know, I am always talking about open relationships. I know I think they're ideal, but I also sometimes ask the question, "who has time?" They do take some extra work and communication! Check out this article by Samantha Escobar, I am quoted in it.

On Set of Underworld XXX with Jessica Drake

Today, I had the pleasure of going behind the scenes of Underworld, the Adult Movie, directed by Brad Armstrong, and Wicked Pictures. I hung out with Jessica Drake who is not only an adult actress but an amazing sex educator as well.

Write up coming real soon.

What Does Being in a Relationship Mean to You?

We should not assume our new relationship partner wants monogamy. Let's talk about it.



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Asking for What You Want ... In the Bedroom

Here is another commercial I did for Durex condoms and Your Tango: Asking for what you want in the bedroom.

The Sex Talk - Why Feminist Sex is Hotter

The ladies Jennifer Keishin Armstrong and Heather Wood Rudulph, who call themselves The Sexy Feminists authors/bloggers of Sexy Feminism are back with Jenoa Harlow and myself for another episode of The Sex Talk.

Why Non Monogamy May Be Tricky

Although many couples are exploring open relationships, there may be some tricky waters ahead. Read my article here....

Female Orgasm, Day 3

Haven't experienced an Orgasm yet? Try a vibrator, masturbation and lube! This one is with my co-host Jenoa Harlow and features her guest, Dr. Frankie, matchmaker.

Female Ejaculation, and Multiple Orgasms

Female Orgasm Week

I deemed it female orgasm week at The Sex Talk.... Check out this podcast from last year, demystifying female orgasm. 

BDSM Demystified..

This is a great episode from last summer with Emily Prior, director at Center for Positive Sexuality...She breaks down BDSM, Kink, service, pleasure and all the rules and definitions
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The Sexy Feminists!

Have you ever wondered what happens to Riot Grrrls when the grow up? Well they write about Sexy Feminism of course! In this episode of The Sex Talk, Jennifer Keishin Armstrong and Heather Wood Rudulph authors of Sexy Feminism join Jenoa and myself to discuss dating and feminism. This is an episode I could watch over and over again, just to hear us be reminded to Be Ourselves, and to fuck the so-called Rules.

The Sex Talk Seeks Sponsorships!

Sex is Natural. Sex is Fun! - George Michael coined that term in the 80's hit song "I want your Sex," And now we want you to join us. If you have a shared vision of promoting healthier attitudes and have a product or business you'd like to promote, then we want to do business with you. Hit us up - We'd love to hear from you!
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What To Do When Your GirlFriend Wants More Sex Than You Do?

Well, one thing is for sure... Talk About It. Ignoring it is not going to make the problem go away. There are one hundred and one (if not more) solutions out there, so get creative, and read my response on Get Lusty here....

The Love Drug!

Do you find yourself falling in love too quickly? The love chemical might be at play here. Oxytocin has strange ways of making us feel like we're in love, when maybe we're really just in lust!
Read my article, which was posted to the homepage of Your Tango here...

Casual Sex!!

One of my favorite topics is casual sex, how to have it and feel proud about it, not ashamed. Here is an article and video based on The Sex Talk episode "Falling in Love Sex Without Falling in Love." Read it here...

Bed Death!

On this weeks episode of The Sex Talk, Jenoa and Dr Frankie discuss how to avoid Bed Death, a concept that was maybe coined around lesbians, who are notorious for it, but I've seen it in many relationships straight, gay or otherwise, long term relationships need some special TLC to keep the spark alive. Check it out here. And remember to subscribe for FREE. More episodes with me actually in them are coming really soon!

 

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What Women Really Want in Bed

Here is the article I wrote for Your Tango: What Women Really Want in Bed.

Dirty Talk and Durex Condoms

I can be seen in the newest Durex Condoms commercial sponsored by Your Tango.
Here is one about talking dirty. You don't have to be raunchy to get into the mood. Not to mention dirty talk connects the body to the brain!

New Marriage- The 7 Year Contract

How to Make Marriage Work!

I love this idea of the 7 year contract. It supports serial monogamy, but I think there is a lot of truth and drive towards serial monogamy. I personally think polyamory can work too, but Dr. Frankie has a little bit of a different take on it here, but overall love this concept! I builds honesty, and trust into the relationship.

April 2013 Newsletter

Do you subscribe to my newsletter? You should! Go to www.LASexTherapist.com and subscribe free. It's monthly! Here's a link to April 2013 Newsletter in case you're not subscribed yet.

Are Chemicals Messing With Your Great Casual Sex Life?

Are we really in love or is there something more at play?

Are you wondering why your sexual encounter is not leading to the relationship you want? It is possible you may be letting the chemicals in the brain get the best of you. Read my article here...

More Dr Frankie on The Sex Talk...

Jenoa continues her conversation with Dr Frankie on The Sex Talk-
this time they discuss Little Gay Book.Com, the matchmaking service for lesbians and bi women which is personalized, customized and confidential, not like online dating at all, but more like old school match-making.
Check it out.

The Lesbian MatchMaker Dr. Frankie on The Sex Talk

In this episode Jenoa interviews Dr. Frankie, matchmaker - who discusses what to look for in a partner. What makes a good match?

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Durex Condoms Sex Ed Videos..

Last week I flew to New York City to do a video shoot for Your Tango and Durex Condoms.  Here is the first of four videos I did which encourage love while promoting safe sex!

What do you like in the bedroom?

Your fantasies during masturbation are key to understanding yourself.
Self love is good! Don't forget to subscribe to TheSexTalkSeries.com
it is FREE and we have new episodes weekly!!

Are We In Love with Love?

Check out the Love Addiction Podcast, Friday 8PM HERE.

How to Get Over a BreakUp

How to get over that intense emotional pain!

Thanks Psych Central for picking up my article!

The esteemed Psych Central has picked up my article on Fear of Commitment.
Thanks!!

Sexy Saturdays Are Coming Back!!

Sexy Saturdays

Vampire Werewolf Erotica

Love Addiction

Fear of Commitment

Falling in Love Sex

all in this month's issue!!

Love Addiction