The Fixing Business

When we care about someone, or even when we hear someone struggling we have an innate built in response to try and help that person. I call this "fixing" behavior, and unfortunately it comes across as "unsolicited advice." In many cases, it may in fact be better, to just listen, and empathize. Being a moral support may just be what your friend wants. Read more here.

Hillary Clinton's AIDS-Free Generation

I am quoted in this article. Please read on....

AIDS-free America? According to the experts, it could happen.

Yesterday, just two days before World AIDS Day, Hillary Clinton rolled out plans to help rid the world of AIDS. While efforts will focus largely in sub-Saharan Africa, where providing access to medication is a major priority, we're not off the hook at home.

No big O?

Are you worried about hurting their feelings? How do you tell your partner, without hurting their feelings. of course, that you are not Orgasming? Dealing with these issues sensitively is important, but also key is to realize that your needs matter too. Don't be shy. Stand up for yourself!! Read my response here.

Is he a 30 second guy?

It's always kind of a joke in our culture, about the 1 minute man, or the 30 second guy, but this is a source of humiliation for men, it's not something men are proud of, it's embarrassing and can be a downer for the relationship. However, at the end of the day it's also an aspect of sexuality that can be healed. 

Going in with mutual respect and admiration is always going to be more helpful than criticizing, nagging, taking it personally. 

This weeks question on Get Lusty addresses this very issue. Read the article here.

Sex with the Lights Off Only Please...

There is something hot and steamy about sex... in the dark. But sometimes sex with the light on can be hot, too yet, not everyone is comfortable with this scenario. What are the reasons for this? Could it be body image? Could it be messages about sex we received that tell us this is taboo, not allowed, dirty or secret? Check out my video : How to Be Comfortable Naked on the Your Tango Experts home page here!