No big O?

Are you worried about hurting their feelings? How do you tell your partner, without hurting their feelings. of course, that you are not Orgasming? Dealing with these issues sensitively is important, but also key is to realize that your needs matter too. Don't be shy. Stand up for yourself!! Read my response here.

Is he a 30 second guy?

It's always kind of a joke in our culture, about the 1 minute man, or the 30 second guy, but this is a source of humiliation for men, it's not something men are proud of, it's embarrassing and can be a downer for the relationship. However, at the end of the day it's also an aspect of sexuality that can be healed. 

Going in with mutual respect and admiration is always going to be more helpful than criticizing, nagging, taking it personally. 

This weeks question on Get Lusty addresses this very issue. Read the article here.

Sex with the Lights Off Only Please...

There is something hot and steamy about sex... in the dark. But sometimes sex with the light on can be hot, too yet, not everyone is comfortable with this scenario. What are the reasons for this? Could it be body image? Could it be messages about sex we received that tell us this is taboo, not allowed, dirty or secret? Check out my video : How to Be Comfortable Naked on the Your Tango Experts home page here!

5 Reasons Couples Enter Sex Therapy

Get Lusty published my article on the Top 5 Reasons Couples Get Sex Therapy. Read the article here.

Newsletter For November

My monthly newsletter came out in email boxes everywhere today. You can read it HERE. You may also want to stop by my website and subscribe. It's FREE!