Is he a 30 second guy?

It's always kind of a joke in our culture, about the 1 minute man, or the 30 second guy, but this is a source of humiliation for men, it's not something men are proud of, it's embarrassing and can be a downer for the relationship. However, at the end of the day it's also an aspect of sexuality that can be healed. 

Going in with mutual respect and admiration is always going to be more helpful than criticizing, nagging, taking it personally. 

This weeks question on Get Lusty addresses this very issue. Read the article here.

Sex with the Lights Off Only Please...

There is something hot and steamy about sex... in the dark. But sometimes sex with the light on can be hot, too yet, not everyone is comfortable with this scenario. What are the reasons for this? Could it be body image? Could it be messages about sex we received that tell us this is taboo, not allowed, dirty or secret? Check out my video : How to Be Comfortable Naked on the Your Tango Experts home page here!

5 Reasons Couples Enter Sex Therapy

Get Lusty published my article on the Top 5 Reasons Couples Get Sex Therapy. Read the article here.

Newsletter For November

My monthly newsletter came out in email boxes everywhere today. You can read it HERE. You may also want to stop by my website and subscribe. It's FREE!

Kissing is HOT!

I love kissing, not necessarily as a form of foreplay, but as a beautiful way of connecting for two individuals which read: DOES NOT always need to be followed by sex. I strongly recommend kissing just for the sake of it, because it really is a huge turn on.

Kissing is a great way for couples who have lost their way when it comes to passion and romance to bring some of that excitement back. Kissing is also great to maintain intimacy in relationships, and to build a connection if you're new together.

Here is a video I did for Your Tango on teaching your partner How to Kiss, in the event that kissing is a little awkward, which let's face it, sometimes it can be. The good news is that you too can learn to be a better kisser. Do it!!